This is not a pro-feminist write-up, not in support of the supposed emancipation of women which has done nothing to our society, but drifted the family unit apart. Believe in gender equality with each sex being duty conscious This post is intended to play a role in restoring the divine order of relationships as stipulated in the following scriptures: Ephesians 5:22,Colossians 3:18, 1 Peter 3:7.From the above scriptures, I established that the divine order of relationship between man, God, Christ and the woman is thus;
- God – Christ – Man – Woman: The head of everyman is Christ, The head of the Woman is the Man and the head of Christ is God.
The woman owes duty to the man, The man owes duty to Christ, and the woman. Christ is there to bridge the gap between God and man, “No ones cometh unto the ‘Father’, but by me” John 14:6. The duty of wives is, submission to their husbands in the Lord, which includes honouring and obeying them, from a principle of love to them, which doesn’t in any way make them inferior to the man. The duty of husbands is to love their wives exemplary in the love of Christ to the church, which is sincere, pure, and constant, notwithstanding her failures. Christ gave himself for the church so to is expected for a real man to give up his life for the woman. A distortion of this order, unfortunately is the case of our society today, means chaos!
Even in our African society, our grand mothers knew they had to submit to our grand fathers, calling them lords, giving them all due respects thereby maintaining the family unit. In their days, hardly was there-ever a civil case of divorce! Children were properly nurtured with both parents teaching them virtues, the men played their roles and carried their duties as passed down to them by tradition, likewise did the women. With little or no medical and technological facilities, they lived healthier, longer and happier lives.
Somewhere in time, a seed of discord was sown and was on the farmland of the family unit. Before you call any woman a bitch, you might want to take some time to understand her, for every bitch, whore or hole was once a Virgin, someone’s darling little daughter. It happened to her and still happening to other girls, they were not born bitches! ‘Society’, ‘a Man’, or a ‘Woman’ made them bitches. Click on any of the links below to read some more on how society, men and women make bitches.
- HOW MEN MAKE BITCHES OUT OF INNOCENT GIRLS.
- HOW WOMEN MAKE BITCHES OUT OF INNOCENT GIRLS
- HOW SOCIETY MAKES BITCHES OF GIRLS