HOW MEN MAKE BITCHES OUT OF INNOCENT GIRLS

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This article is a sequel of, ” Every Bitch was once a virgin” If you haven’t read the intro of the three parts write-up, then click to read it.

There are several ways men make bitches out of innocent girls, some knowingly, others ignorantly.

  1.  Heartbroken: One of the ways men unconsciously make bitches out of innocent girls is to break their fragile and tender hearts. Broken hearts do mend, but in most of the cases; the woman is never the same again thereafter! This could be a girl who withstood many peer pressures: pressures from her straight friends who already got flowered by men, pressures from lesbians with ever convincing stories. despite all the pressures, she was convicted and stood her grounds to remain straight and a virgin. Somewhere along her storyline, she got convinced by a man in the name of love! She resisted many attempts by her lover to get into her. Because the man was incessant in his quest to know her in her depth, she finally gave in to prove her love. She didn’t just opened her legs, she opened her mind, soul and store house of love, but to the man, he just won,  an additional feather added to his red cap of sexual conquest and he is all set for the next. Phone calls not being returned, text messages replied with fewer words, things not going the way it used, her supposed sweet lover is no way to be found, she finally settled with the bitter truth and harsh reality of a broken heart. Tears pouring down her cheeks, she can’t use the blanket because it’s wet! Gloomy and Cynical thoughts buried down deep her subconscious mind, by her friends in her days of peer pressures pops-up! A deadly reverberation with detrimental effects, judging the core virtues she had for so long remained true to. Girls in this situation get to decide on one of the following things:
    • Revenge: Revenge, but not on the man who hurt her, but on different men. The man who hurt her remains the special one and like the popular Cameroon adage puts it, “Once laid, always laid”. the vengeful woman with a broken heart remains a slave to her victimizer. She deceives herself by acting strong in front of other men, putting up a seductive charisma  coercing and luring feeble men into  never existing relationships either to extort materials or get them broken as well. The victimizer is scold-free, probably victimizing another victim. Each time they meet, he finds her a little darker, wider and deeper! She put up so much work in destroying herself and becoming a bitch just to impress a fuck boy in the name of first love. Herself esteem when it comes to him are at the low, in her own eyes and measuring scale, she’s never a match to him! Don’t be naive girl,”you never know what you have until you lose it”. “He is the master of the game, don’t forget he made you a bitch”. To Girls who are heartbroken and considering taking the revengeful path, the book of Deuteronomy 32:35 strongly disagrees with you as it reads,” To me belongeth vengeance and recompense; their foot shall slide in due time: for the day of their calamity is at hand, and the things that shall come upon them make haste”. On your own, you will never be able to hurt him, he knows the softest part in your being, he knows what to say, when to say it and how to say it, he knows you in and out. Sometimes you are convinced he knows you more than you know yourself. You will only succeed in becoming a tool in the devil’s hand to drift the family unit apart by destroying the remnant of good men who come to you believing in the angel they see in you, but for the fact you are now of the philosophy of, ” All men are the same”, you end up making another fuck boys and becoming a bitch when you choose revenge as an option.
    • Lesbianism: Most gullible girls with broken-hearts are easily talked into becoming practicing lesbians especially those who had been peered even once by a lesbian peer group. They tell you, ” what a man can do, a woman can do better”. Lesbians come with the promise of true love, orgasm upon orgasms, faithfulness, but never has it,  in the history of mankind, for a woman be made pregnant by another woman. Though the pleasures from lesbianism relationship be sweet as honey, you do not have to lend the devil a helping hand in distorting the family unit. To say,” you were someone else is to destroy the person you are” and to,” Change because of some other person, is to say you were never true to the person you were”. The end of most women who got initiated into the cult of the lesbians, is an end of pity; a bitter woman sustained with any iota of decency overruled, bi-sexual, confused and possessed with demonic spirits. Lesbianism is a no go area, it’s not in harmony with nature, the law of procreation and with the Word of God. So no need to become a lesbian-bitch because of an impractical man. Bae, you got to let go, he’s not worth it!
    • Let Go: This is my favorite type of ladies! They always let go, pick the broken pieces of their broken hearts, put them together, get some threads and mend their hearts. One of their threads could be the word of God, finding true love in the man called ” Jesus Christ”. Getting to know him, trusting him completely to get lost in him, making it a prerequisite and imperative for men who seek her love, to first seek Christ so as to find her in him. These are the type of women who look, but at the point they kicked their legs, but not where they stumbled. They always find a way to figure out all lope-holes in their principles, reinforce them and move on with her happy lives.
  2. Impostorem: impostorem is the Latin root of the word impostor. The sacred values of the act of sex have all degraded and almost extinct in our society. We hear phrases like, ” Money for hand back for down” meaning sex has been reduced to commodity being commanded by a price. We find corrupt women trying to justify their shameful acts by labeling all women as prostitutes, whenever someone scolds or shouts at them. Hell no! Not all women are prostitutes! There’s always a remnant, my mother is not a prostitute, your mother is not prostitute. Why then should all women be labeled as prostitutes? Because of our lost sisters for whom this whole article is structured, just so they may find their way back. Even though sex has lost its sacredness, we thank God for preserving a handful of traditional girls/women who still stick the fact that sex is sacred. These, virgins or not when they give into sex, they give in body, mind and soul leaving nothing behind. They become loyal to the man, willing to do anything to make him happy. These are true virtuous women, but when they fall prey to an impostor, they become voracious bitches. There are men who will pretend to be your dream guy,  portraying and wearing the garment of your ideal man in every way imaginable. You fall for him, then when you finally open up and he starts showing you the real him, taking advantage of the fact you adhered to the sacredness of sex – Bae call it quit with the impostor – do not linger any longer to see more of the impostor less you become an impostor yourself under his reign. Most men think they’ve conquered when a woman opens up to them: a man who initially was full of understanding, but after the sexual intercourse, he starts shouting at the least mistake you could be placed in the category of an impostor. A man whose voice was always soft, now because he bedded you is hard and impregnable, ‘mami’ the hand writing is vividly written on the wall,”Impostorem” Majority of girls whose bitch level escalated to prostitution, drugging and Stealing from men are purebreds of the impostorem kind of men.
  3. Irresponsible Father:The role of a father as the head of a family could never be undermined! To me, the father ought or supposed to be the first teacher in any kid’s life. Knowledge transfer from parents to children often times are knowledge we carry with us for the rest of our lives. Most parents concern themselves more with talking, shouting and beating their children, than preaching to them with their own lifestyles. Like the saying goes, ” Worry not when a Child does not listen to you, but worry when the child watches your every move”. Sometimes a parent’s lifestyle could be the only gospel they ever have to preach or the upbringing they ever need to give to their children. Girls raised by vulnerable mothers and ‘stern women beating fathers’, are bound to become over self protective women, a girl being raised by a father who does not provide for her submissive mother and siblings, will hardly ever submit to a man and will probably learn to fend for herself the wrong way. A school of thought holds it that, ” Most girls use their fathers as the mirror to look at men in general” Before you call another woman a bitch, take some time and patience to find out if the first man she knew turned out to be a useless mirror reflecting only pain, anguish, misery, abuse and oppression. Leading to having a  personal relationship with Christ will counter the negation imparted in her by her Dad. Her mind-set needs formatting and a new program run which shall supersede those embedded in her by her dad, an anti-virus of care and attention installed, a firewall of prayers put in place. With these in place,  then be sure she’s safe from the virus that would have corrupted her system; either making her an unproductive lesbian or a malware infected bole hole.

There are other ways men make bitches out of innocent girls, but the above three are the most rampant and we thought it wise to put it up to educate and create awareness. If you find it educative and interesting click below to read part two. Part two talks on how bitches are made by women. Click here to read: Part II

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