Been dating her for three years now, the pressure from her family is so much and they want her to get married to her tribe's man. She's 25 and I plan to get married when am 30 meaning I still have two more years to go. She's been on me too, everyday asking when I intend to come see her parents even after I had explained to her what my plans for the future are. I told her she's free to get married to the man her family wants for her, but she didn't take it smiling: She said I've been fooling her all along and that I never loved her. Please I need a mature advice; Should stick to my plans or go against them and marry her?
Thanks
If you truly love her u won't think of leaving her..I know the pressure girls go tru from their parents when it comes to marriage..its about the two of u and what u want..she needs u to assure her from ur heart that u are in this together...they will come around only when they see u two fight for your love...hope u make a good decision.take care
Thanks for the advice Bandz, but this case is different because she's gave me deadline when I tried to talk her into waiting and besides I don't want to be held responsible for wasting her time as she puts it. I thinking freeing her is the best thing at this point!